The holidays offer parents a perfect opportunity to teach kids of any age about the spirit of giving – not just to family and friends, but to those in need. There are so many ways to introduce our kids to the beauty of compassion and thoughtfulness, and we’re fortunate to have wonderful programs, both here in the Capital District and nationwide, where people can volunteer or gift things like toys, coats and meals. The other day, I overheard my friend’s 6-year-old son ask if he could do something “all on his own” to give. It started me thinking of ways even a young child can do something to make a real impact on the life of another. What I found is it can be easy and inexpensive — or even free — for a kid to give on his or her own. Here are a few ideas to get you started:
• Instead of (or in addition to) mailing a check to your favorite local charity, drive your child to the charity’s office and give cash, personally. The charity representative will likely be very touched, and you’ll create a lasting memory for your child. • Any child can make a simple craft, painting or other handmade gift and bring it to a local nursing home. Ask for a resident who may not have family or visitors for the holidays. Include a card and visit with the resident. Even a small item and a short visit will make all the difference. • Got a shoebox (or two, or 10)? Since kids are constantly growing out of their shoes, they can save the boxes for the Mohawk/Hudson Humane Society (MHHM). The MHHM also needs other things kids can likely find around the house, like newspapers and redeemable cans or bottles – check out the wish list on their website at www.mohawkhumane.org/wishlist.html. Speaking of wish lists, many nonprofit organizations have them. Check websites, or call an organization to find out how a child can be personally involved. Here are two specific charities where even the smallest gift makes all the difference:
• The Modest Needs Foundation is a unique, top-rated charity promoting independence and self-sufficiency by offering financial assistance to unsupported single mothers, veterans and others facing short–term financial emergencies. Because Modest Needs is crowd-funded, even $1 or $5, when added to other donors’ money, will save an individual or family from entering the cycle of poverty. With your help, children can visit the website, recommend an application to donate their dollar(s), and watch every day as more people add more donations. Best of all, once the request for help is funded, the recipient leaves a thank you “testimonial” on the website for your child to read and learn firsthand what a great impact is made with every dollar. Visit www.modestneeds.org/index.asp for more information. • Ronald McDonald House Charities of the Capital District provides stability, housing and other resources for families so they can stay close by their hospitalized child at little or no cost. Kids can pop the tabs off soda/juice cans (or any cans) and collect them. Ronald McDonald House recycles them and generates much-needed income, so each time kids pull or pop a tab off, they’re helping a family in need. For more information about how and where to drop off tabs, call 438-2655.
However you choose to celebrate the season, may your holidays be filled with the gladness of giving!